Hello, first of all an apology for not posting in a while and especially not posting on my 20th survival birthday, which was February 7th 2025!!
As a short summary: I had another MRI and everything is stable! I still live in California, watching with increasing bewilderment the current political ongoings, how this country,which saved my life, is cutting its commitment to science(which is HOW it saved my life), allowing an ignorant "elite" making decisions on what type of science is dispensable. People, who cannot discriminate "Transgenic" and "Transgender". At first I thought its just a joke, it seemed so ridiculous, at first I refused to believe it. But its not: (https://www.youtube.com/shorts/_STzs7Jgq3Q) unless that's an AI-generated video. If this keeps going on at the current pace, I may have to leave this country again. I am not sure, if I had returned had I known what would come. But I will not go into this here and now. Maybe I will start another blog on this topic: "Notes of a European in Trumpist America". this will be mostly self-therapeutic and to vent my anger over a movement that is in the process destroying the inner makings of one of the best countries in the world (yes, I mean it!). So after this detour- what am I writing about today?
One of the unexpected side effects of being a long-term survivor of this killer disease, is that every case of brain tumor in my community of friends and colleagues, will be brought to my attention, asking for advise in the hope, that I could help. I am always very honored to be asked and of course share everything I know, although it does not always help. 10 days ago I learned from a good friend that our common friend (MM.) has been diagnosed with GBM. I know her from my "first time in San Diego" in the meantime she has moved back to Germany and lives in Berlin now. I immediately sent her the information for Dr. Liau (UCLA), who did the terrific job on me, and of Prof. Westphal in Germany, also a highly recommended neurosurgeon. so this makes "another entry" on a very depressing list:
In my immediate family: (TL.), my brother in law; (AW.) the ex-spouse and love-of his-life of a very close friend of mine (OH.) in Berlin; and (ES.) the secretary of my mentor at the Salk, a joyous spirit in my postdoctoral time, she mailed me her diagnosis in the time when I was still in Germany; Sometimes it feels like a curse! Well, it is a known fact that over the age of 40 cancers in general become more frequent. As a known survivor, I am considered an "Expert" of sorts. And as much as I am glad and honored to be asked for help, what drives me to desperation: in NONE of these cases, I was able to actually help. ALL of them have passed away in the meantime. And (MM.'s case does not sound very hopeful either) I have said that before: TO HELL WITH CANCER!!
Of course, having been a brain tumor patient, does NOT give me the power to make it go away in other people. I wish it would. Plus my diagnosis was "only" Anaplastic Astocytoma , not Glioblastoma multiforme (GBM) (so malignant glioma grade III versus grade IV).
Either way, what they call "Survivors guilt" is not a stranger to me. Now (MM.) is added to the "list" I had met her in Hamburg when her daughter was still a baby, now she is 8 years old (my own son is 9 now, turning 10). Although it might arrive too late to have an impact, I mailed her the Ben Williams book (Which is not available in Germany), which at the time was my first glimmer of hope, that there are SOME who make it. I had done the same for (TL.) and (AW.), so now this seems like a dark, helpless routine. I think it is not available because in the book he suggests some self-conceived therapy, which is probably the reason why the book cannot be published in Germany (He is no MD, but rather a PhD, a psychologist). I should say, I have not taken any of the drugs he suggests, but I find his reasoning for them quite convincing. For me the book was very important because, it shows there IS someone who survived. This was incredibly helpful and a main motivation for starting this blog. to show there IS someone alive after, after now 20 years!
And to say it: As a survivor you feel as part of a community. and it's the duty of this community to support everyone who joins on this path as good as we can. This is a fragile community of people who have kept living despite of the fact they were told there is no hope. What frustrates me deeply right now is that I could keep doing actual research work to find answers or lay groundwork to new therapies, but I cannot find a job.
Life Science is in a bad shape in the US right now, which brings me back to the beginning of this post. Anyway, to you guys reading this! Keep it up and drop me a note!
Thomass :-)